Yes, this 💯! I had three miscarriages during my life, and I came to this conclusion on my own as a way to make peace with what happened. I asked the universe to send back the same souls into healthy bodies next time. I was so convinced this was the way of things, that I kept the same names we had decided upon for our lost babies and used them when we eventually had our two living children. Glad to hear the same perspective from others.

Choice is what women deserve, not judgement or persecution. There is no 100% solution for all. The choice to birth or not to birth a child should rest with the expectant mom and any trusted persons with whom she chooses to share in making that choice. The rest of us should mind our business.